This time around I don't feel as nearly stressed,

                                         This is Called a Turtle when we found out it was a boy this is what we saw                                             first      

Yesterday we found out we were having a boy and we are ecstatic to say the least. I wasn't sure what I was having I knew with Danika that we were having a girl, this one wanted to surprise us lol. I know though that there was a chance it could be a boy because everything has been polar opposite than with Danika. Though I was reading my baby book last night and I felt a calm sense in who I wanted things done. Going over a few things with Bentley I am so relieved that we are agree on a lot of things which by the way makes things so much nicer. I know my birth plan also it's simple, it's sweet and it's something I know I wont get disappointed if it doesn't go that right way. As we were talking last night. I decided that if two of the people I wanted to come were able to make it they would be in the room this time sharing in the experience. Bentley has a hard time sometimes with nasty smells and the smell of the iron in the blood and there is a lot of that. I prefer him to be feeling great when the baby is here so he can give his undivided attention to whats going on with the baby. If not the nurses can help or if some of my friends that are co workers can sneak away during work or whatever they can come help because of my job some of them have all ready seen my lady parts because of the surgery I had last July. No mother or mother in law in the room this time though, I like sharing and giving other people turns. Also an episiotomy will be okay if needed I had one with Danika and  I might need one this time, forceps or vaccum are okay also. Danika also needed forceps to help get her our she had some marks but she was doing great. If a C section is needed there is only one person that isn't allowed to look in the window or stand in the corner of the room, people don't need to know her name but those that know who she is might understand why I don't want this. I have voiced this at work all ready so they  know. I want an epidural as soon as I can have one because those make me happy. As for Carson as soon as he can be circumcised he will be that's the one thing I told Bentley he was in charge of making the decision on and I am glad we were thinking the same thing (thats the hard part). Now we all ready know that there is a huge chance that Carson most likely have Jaundice because of my blood type and what his could be either A+ or B+ and my blood type is O+ and its called ABO incompatibility. Bentley's Blood type is AB+ because of this none of our kids will have my blood type and will have A or B blood which doesn't mix well with my blood, leaving them for a lot higher risk of Jaundice. We were very lucky with Danika and she actually had the lowest Jaundice score of babies in the nursery born the same day as her.  We are hoping that the same thing is with Carson but you just realize and understand that there is a possibility that its more likely to happen. The only thing that we really realize is that we have no clothes for a boy hahaha so in some ways we feel like we are starting all over again. Luckily we have most of the expensive stuff out of the way so we don't have to worry about that and we got a few months to buy clothes here and there for him. It was amazing watching and listening to Danika when we got the ultrasound done yesterday. She was so excited when Bentley would tell her look there is a hand and a foot, his face and so on. Now she did find the placenta boring and umbilical cord very boring and when they did she did the heat sensor thing danika called it bubbles and was so excited. Here is the ultrasound photos from yesterday the ones  I didn't post on facebook. .